Help! My employees are experiencing quarantine fatigue! My employees are disengaging! How do I motivate my team remotely?
Shortly after school went online, my daughter said to me, “They’ve taken away all the good stuff from school and made the bad stuff even worse.” There’s no more lunchtime with friends, prom, spontaneous trip to Starbucks after school, and classes have gone from hands on interaction to dreadfully long zoom meetings where half the kids turn off their cameras.
Work is the same way. If you ask most employees what makes work good, it will be the people they work with. People like going to work because of the social interaction—and that’s exactly what’s missing right now. There are no “water cooler” conversations, no Friday lunch outings, no after work activities. We just go to dreadfully boring zoom meetings.
Managers have good reason to be concerned that their employees are not motivated because they aren’t. Quarantine fatigue has set in. How do you keep your employees engaged when they’re not working face-to-face? There are lots of ways to incentivize performance remotely (see my free webinar for tips), but, right now, fun is the answer. It’s time to add fun back into work.
Fun goes beyond the now-cliché virtual happy hour. It means setting up the infrastructure and culture for people to engage with each other about personal things, enjoy humor, and feel connection. Here is a small list of ideas that are working for leaders I work with.
- Fun zoom meetings that are not about business. Introduce your families or pets, most creative dish you’ve made with limited ingredients, best vacation you’ve ever had, and so on. These can spawn themed Slack channels or email lists for continued engagement.
- Fun Slack channels or email lists. Favorite playlist, favorite theme (jazz/hard rock/show tune/etc.) song of the day, Netflix binges, kids activities, pets, and so on.
- Games. There are many online games available that are approachable to everyone. Try a 4:00 game time during work hours. Break people up into teams to increase engagement and bonding among team members.
- Virtual coffee and virtual lunch. Go for smaller, more personal meetings with team members and colleagues. Take someone to coffee or lunch one-on-one like you might normally do at work. Just set it up virtually. Perhaps you can even do a socially distant coffee or lunch in person and offer to drive to a park our other outdoor setting near where they live.
- Teambuilding activities. We offer several teambuilding activities that are fun and engaging and are more relevant to work. The Invisible Path game helps build trust and communication, the Strengthen Your Team activity uses the Gallup StrengthsFinder tool to help team members appreciate each other’s contributions, and our more sophisticated business simulation brings out the competition and challenge for people who crave that.
No matter which path you take, try to get your employees to smile again. It really helps build morale.
With schools closing down and workplaces going online, many of us are finding ourselves in uncharted territory. It’s not just that we have to work from home, but we have to do it with our kids running around the house. The fact is you’re going to be more distracted working from home over the next few weeks when the whole family is home with you. But there are best practices to help you stay focused without ruining your relationships with your spouse and children.
- Get privacy. If you have a separate office in your house, use it and close the door. If you don’t, create a temporary office in a separate room where you can close the door and have quiet. It may mean taking over the dining room table or bedroom during the day and cleaning up your work materials at the close of the day. Privacy is not only for you, it’s for your colleagues and clients, and it will help the kids adjust better too.
- Set boundaries. No doubt kids will see being at home with you as an opportunity to spend more time with you (unless you have teens or college age kids, which may require creating more space). It will be up to you to set the boundaries early on and stay disciplined. They will likely try every trick in the book to get your attention at first, but if you stick to a routine, they will adjust.
- Personalize your plan. You know what works best for you and your family. If you need to take a lot of breaks to check on the kids or to maintain your own sanity, do it. Set your plan to work for 1 hour then take 10 minutes off to socialize, get coffee, stretch your legs, or whatever you need. But set a timer and get back to work. If you know that saying good-bye to your kids will trigger a huge separation issue, plan to see them only at lunchtime and the end of the day. If you need to trade off childcare responsibilities, figure out a plan that works for you and your partner. It may take a few tries to get it right.
- Be flexible and forgiving. Adjusting to working from home takes time and experimenting. Be patient with yourself, with your colleagues, and with your family. Plan ahead for mitigating and resolving frustrations. That may include creating “safe words” to use with your family or boss to compassionately tell them to back off. Humor can be of use for this. For example, if you choose a safety phrase of “purple dinosaur,” you could say to your 5-year-old that you need to meet with a purple dinosaur to mean that you need to step out of the room and calm down. Respect them when they say it too. With your boss, it could simply be, “I need to take a quick personal break and I’ll call you right back.”
The last word for this time of the Coronavirus crisis is that it is only temporary. You can set up routines that won’t last forever, like giving your kids more screen time or shifting your work to the evenings or playing tag in the yard at lunchtime or calling your coworkers just to chat. We’re all on edge with the ambiguity of the illness and the effects of cabin fever. Treat yourself and others with compassion during this period of time. Think about how you will want to look back on it.